tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6102758362320348657.post3324097364415109961..comments2023-04-26T10:48:38.547-04:00Comments on Bent Not Broken: My Crappy Week and Three Good ThingsBentNotBrokenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10151724076659555122noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6102758362320348657.post-59056160289471061702014-10-29T11:16:33.243-04:002014-10-29T11:16:33.243-04:00I've found that my grief comes in waves (tsuna...I've found that my grief comes in waves (tsunamis?) rather than slow and steady. I'll be ok for a while and then be taken out by a big wave. I don't know if this is good/normal, but it's what typically happens for me.<br /><br />I'm still thinking on the positive feelings and may come up with a few more eventually. BentNotBrokenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10151724076659555122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6102758362320348657.post-49533782235357168202014-10-26T22:58:57.757-04:002014-10-26T22:58:57.757-04:00So sorry to hear about your crappy week :( Just th...So sorry to hear about your crappy week :( Just think that it is good that all of this came at once and was not spread over a couple of months so you can just deal with it now and forget about it. <br /><br />So great you came up with the three great feelings!! See, there is always good in any situation! It was a challenging excerise and I have struggled with it all weekend. I came up with nine positive feelings. I just published my list but I will come and add my descriptions and what I mean under each point. I like your number one, it IS Freedom! <br /><br />I could also tell a lot facts about anatomical changes, and those changes do not come only after 50 but sometimes during pregnancy and right after and stay. We just don't know because no one talks about it to anyone except to medical professionals.PerAsperahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18384612134241953499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6102758362320348657.post-73291520384568325582014-10-26T09:12:57.953-04:002014-10-26T09:12:57.953-04:00We enjoy indulging in Afternoon Delights at this h...We enjoy indulging in Afternoon Delights at this house too! :) I hope this isn't too personal but it felt like we lost a whole lot of intimacy when we were TTC and we're steadily getting it back. Maybe I'm a romantic (or maybe just naive) but I think sex is as much about the emotional and spiritual connection as it is the physical one, and we all but lost that emotional connection for a while. <br /><br />Good to know that I have pelvic floor strength to look forward too! <br /><br />BentNotBrokenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10151724076659555122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6102758362320348657.post-18936724812983793882014-10-26T00:20:32.174-04:002014-10-26T00:20:32.174-04:00#1. It doesn't just feel like freedom. It IS ...#1. It doesn't just feel like freedom. It IS freedom.<br />Love #2. "Afternoon delights" are something that is particularly difficult for those with kids to indulge in.<br />I also think that the lack of anatomical changes (not just for passion, but general day-to-day life - pelvic floor strength when you're in your 50s and beyond is a bonus!) deserves to be a separate item (#4?).<br />#3. This is a good one. <br />Malihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03928262526502319303noreply@blogger.com